Whether it comes from those around us or it’s something that emanates from within and shows ourselves compassion and care; love endures as a way to establish strong connections. It can be a source of happiness and joy but also a way to tap into our purpose, communicate belonging and also bring about a sense of security.
There are many layers to expressing, receiving and feeling love; acknowledging our own needs, values and boundaries reinforces what nurtures us while also communicating to others how we wish to be loved. By gaining a strong sense of what fulfills us; we’re better equipped to identify and attract healthy relationships and develop personal (self-love) behaviours that align with what supports our ability to thrive.
Self-awareness can help avoid settling for what lessens or excludes empathy, kindness, growth and understanding. We must recognize the love we deserve — the type that nourishes — and let it grow within each part of our whole being.
The way we rely on and spread love will no doubt broaden and evolve over time/experience. It’s meant to grow with us as we figure out what serves our physical, mental and emotional well-being. There’s no one-size-fits-all way of encountering or gifting love; it just needs to be genuine and authentic — we must give ourselves permission to communicate our needs.
We can (and should) connect love to the numerous things in life that bring enjoyment, meaning, appreciation and intimacy — no matter what they are. There’s no limit to seeking out and cultivating what energizes us; prioritizing or creating space for those things in our life will provide insight into what truly matters. Healthy relationships of all kinds — whether friendship; familial; romantic, or based in self-love — deserve to flourish.
How do you give and receive love? How do you explore healthy relationships (with yourself and other people)?
Further Info:
Personal Boundaries and Building Self Love – PsychCentral
Signs Your In A Healthy Relationship – VeryWellMind
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transatlantic | notes 
This is beautiful! It really encapsulates what it means to have self-love in all areas of your life. Thank you for sharing x
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I hoped that would come across; thank you so much for stopping by!
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This is a lovely poem, and I completely agree that self-awareness is important in understanding the love we deserve
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Exactly; it’s vital we connect with this throughout life. Thanks for reading!
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Lovely poetry! Thank you for sharing and keep up the good work.
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Thank you so much, Fadima!
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I do love things that give us enjoyment in life. Honestly, I let time decide and it naturally grow the love and connection with others.
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Finding this throughout life is one of the loveliest joys to experience. Thanks for reading!
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A lovely poem. I love the message of loving yourself first and spreading this joy to others.
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Thank you so much for reading!
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What a beautiful poem. It is sharing so much about love and self love. Thank you for sharing.
Lauren
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I am so glad you like it; thank you!
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This is such a beautifully written poem! I love it! Thanks so much for sharing it!
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Thank you so much!
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That is a beautiful poem you wrote. I agree that we do need to give ourselves permission to state our needs to our love ones.
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Thank you so much for reading!
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Beautiful poem. I agree with you, the more we know ourselves, the more we can love 🙂
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Exactly; it’s a beautiful cycle!
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The importance of self-love in a couple of lines, you couldn’t have expressed it any better! Beautiful words, Molly xx
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Thank you so much!
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‘Weave love’ you’ve put these two words together beautiful. Makes the poem.
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Thank you!
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Hi there, I came across your blog and as someone who enjoys poetry and writes poems, this piece spoke to me. Regards, and let’s continue to explore life through writing.
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I am so glad you enjoyed this!
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