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50 Date Ideas That Make Romance Easy To Maintain

Planning a date does not need to be complicated or expensive; you can create lasting memories with simple activities that help nurture romance and intimacy. Making time to do something together at home or out and about is a great way to support the well-being of your relationship.

It doesn’t matter if you’re in a new or well-established relationship; spending quality time together on romantic dates is essential for nurturing a relationship. These moments create opportunities for intimacy, communication, and connection that may be overlooked in the hustle and bustle of daily life. Dates provide a chance to escape from routine, allowing couples to rediscover each other and bond on a deeper level. Moreover, it’s a chance to express love and appreciation, making each partner feel valued and cherished.

Every relationship is unique and shaped by the individuals involved; what ignites passion and strengthens partnership for one couple may not apply to another. Some may thrive on spontaneous adventures, while others find solace in quiet evenings at home. Going on regular dates provides the opportunity to create and maintain a harmonious and fulfilling connection — but consistently coming up with ideas that keep things interesting can be difficult. 

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While big gestures and extravagant displays of affection, appreciation and love can be exciting, they do not define what romance is all about. In fact, it’s the accumulation of small acts of thoughtfulness and deep understanding that weave endurance into a cherished love story. Meaningful moments are just as expressive and significant as something grand and impressive. In much the same way, ideas for dates do not need to be lavish or costly to be romantic.

Simple Yet Unbelievably Enjoyable Date Ideas

If you want something sustainable that reminds you and your partner of the fun and beauty in everyday togetherness, check out these 50 romantic dates you can go on …

1.| Order takeout and have a movie night picnic (complete with a blanket, cushions, and string lights, etc.) in your living room.

2.| Start a film club where each person selects a movie to watch based on a favourite book or comic, etc.; discuss and rate the story.

3.| Gather some snacks and spend some time binge-watching a TV show.

4.| Go on a dinner date at home by cooking a new recipe together; choose a dish from a different world region each time to try out.

5.| Take a virtual cooking class together; taste test each other’s food.

6.| Have a dessert tasting night with various store-bought sweet treats; rate each one based on presentation and flavour, for example.

7.| Set up a wine and cheese tasting evening at home; buy a selection of mini bottles of wine and pair them with cheeses, chocolates, or fruits.

8.| Create your own mocktail bar and come up with non-alcoholic mixes (complete with unique names for each drink).

9.| Let creativity flow and do some painting or other DIY craft activities (this can be done at any time of the day).

10.| Design and make custom t-shirts (there are kits you can buy with everything you need in them).

11.| Have a board game tournament, trivia night or play card games and complete puzzles with one another.

12.| Make a treasure hunt around the house (maybe incorporate finding things related to key relationship memories). One partner can leave clues to prizes or other romantic activities for the other to find or take part in.

13.| Explore an online escape room game; work together to find a way out.

14.| Sing your way through a karaoke night at home; if you don’t have a machine to use, find karaoke songs on YouTube.

15.| Attend a virtual concert or other live-streamed event.

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16.| Go for a scenic drive and listen to some music; you can plan a place to stop at and enjoy some food (picnic, café, or restaurant).

17.| Find a good spot to watch the sunset or sunrise.

18.| Attend an outside stargazing event or visit a planetarium to learn about astronomy, the night sky, and planets.

19.| Enjoy a relaxing day at the beach or lake to sit by the water, swim, and build sandcastles.

20.| Spend a weekend in the great outdoors on a camping trip.

21.| Take a ferry or boat ride that has a route through areas of natural beauty; capture lots of photographs as a shared keepsake.

22.| Enjoy a leisurely Sunday brunch at a local café.

23.| Visit different coffee shops and try their specialties.

24.| Pack a picnic basket with your favourite foods and enjoy a meal outdoors.

25.| Go to a bookstore and pick out books for each other; get something to eat and drink in the store (if available) or nearby to discuss the book choices.

26.| Walk through a local farmers’ market and explore the produce and artisanal goods on offer (maybe buy a few things to taste test or use at home).

27.| Channel your creative side and attend a pottery class to make something (which you can gift to each other).

28.| Attend an in-person couples yoga or meditation class.

29.| Treat yourselves to facials and massages at a local spa.

30.| Take a leisurely bike ride in your neighbourhood.

31.| Find a hiking trail for a short nature walk, or enjoy a stroll in a nearby park.

32.| Spend time visiting an art gallery or museum.

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33.| Create your own artwork together at an art studio that offers classes.

34.| Self-explore a historical site that’s close to where you live, or take a guided tour.

35.| Visit a botanical garden or conservatory to enjoy some time amongst plants and flowers.

36.| Take part in a taste-testing session at a brewery or winery.

37.| Travel to a small town or village to spend the day wandering around and discovering what the area has to offer.

38.| Make a trip to a reputable wildlife sanctuary to observe and learn about different animals.

39.| Attend a free community event or outdoor movie screening.

40.| Play mini-golf or visit a local arcade.

41.| Bounce around an indoor trampoline park.

42.| Go ice skating at a rink; for extra romance, find one that has evening opening hours.

43.| Enjoy a trail ride on horseback or take riding lessons together.

44.| Try out some rollercoasters and games at an amusement park.

45.| Race against each other at a go-kart track.

46.| Salsa dance at a local studio or take classes; try out any other dancing styles as well to find what you both like.

47.| Test your strength, abilities, and head for heights at an indoor rock climbing gym.

48.| Do an actual real-life escape room; work as a team to solve puzzles.

49.| Have some drinks and sing your hearts out at a karaoke bar.

50.| Attend a comedy show or open mic night.

In Summary

Planning a date with your loved one does not need to be elaborate, nor should it add pressure to constantly perform or impress. Creating memorable and romantic moments should be about fostering joy and connection and enjoying each other’s company.

Hopefully, the simple yet fun date ideas included in this article have provided some useful inspiration!

Which one of these suggestions is your favourite? How do you spend time with your partner?


Further Info:

How Couples Are “Working On It” in 2023 – Very Well Mind

Relationship Goals Every Couple Should Have In 2023 – Essence

34 thoughts on “50 Date Ideas That Make Romance Easy To Maintain”

  1. These are fantastic date ideas, and I completely agree that dates do not need to be expensive or complicated. My go-to date is my partner and I making dinner together and then watching a movie. I also enjoy going on picnics when the weather is warmer and going for walks downtown.
    I love the idea of doing an online escape room and attending a stargazing event!

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  2. These are all amazing ideas, Molly! These activities are practical and I love the free and affordable options. Dates don’t have to cost a fortune to be meaningful! I especially love the online escape room one. Thank you for sharing!

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    1. Exactly! I’ve been seeing so many date nights or date ideas shared on social media that were all seem really expensive and/or overly complicated that I wanted to show that it does not have to be like this. There are so many lovely ideas that are not going to cost a lot. Thanks for reading!

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  3. I love this list. I didn’t know there were online escape rooms. I love #4 cooking different meals at home with your partner. It’s a great way to work together and talk to each other. I’ve attended salsa classes with my partner and it’s always a great time. Thank you for so many ideas.

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    1. There are some fairly decent free online escape rooms available, just search online and you should find some (there are also some great games you can buy that are really entertaining). I love that you and your partner go to salsa classes, that must be so much fun!

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  4. These are wonderful suggestions, Molly, I’m bookmarking this post to refer to in future. My husband and I don’t very often go on date nights but when we do, we do the same things. Time to freshen things up, I think!

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  5. I liked several ideas on the list, I like to go visit museums and also fairs, because it relaxes me a lot, I also like to visit the nursery and do local tourism, to disconnect from the routine. Greetings!

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  6. I love this post. If you’ve been married for a while and have children, sometimes you don’t make it as much of a priority and this gave me so many simple and easy ideas to keep the spark going. Thanks.

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